When faced with this difficulty, most men resort to diving right into “interrogation mode”. This is when guys just start spouting off a series of rapid-fire fact-based questions to the girls in the hopes of keeping the conversation going, not really worried about what the conversation is about. Understandably, quick questions like this result in quick answers, leaving the men right back in the same place they were. Instead of going down this route, here are a handful of good conversation topics to use while talking to girls.
1. Don’t be afraid to gossip
There’s a reason people tune in to “Jerry Springer” even after all of these years: They’re intrigued by the weird drama of people’s lives. As such, sharing gossip (or “drama”) about your own life or the lives of your friends is a great way to keep the conversation from getting boring. Anything with sex, relationships, strange twists, dates gone wrong are all worthy topics of conversation.
One of my favorite gossip/drama accounts is from the life of a friend of mine. He used to have daily conversations on the Internet with the girl for over a year, but whenever he would bring up meeting face-to-face for the first time she would balk at the suggestion. Later, he found out she was just a housewife who living across the country and was just bored during the day. Whenever I tell this story to a woman, it opens up a great conversation.
2. Strange experiences
In the same way, talking about the “weirdness” in your own life can move conversations from good to great. Has something intriguing or strange ever happen to you? For instance, sometimes I’ll tell the story about my grandma who says she was visited by a dead relative. It’s such a strange experience, full with so many emotions and facts, that the woman can find a large assortment of questions to continue the conversation. From there, she will offer her own bout of strange experiences, which will further propel the conversation.
3. Ambitions and passions
This is probably the best topic of conversation you can have going for you. By talking about your future ambitions and the passions you have, not only can you continue moving the conversation forward because of the amount of knowledge you have on the topic, but you also will be unable to keep from sounding excited while talking. Showing this emotion is always a positive when talking to a girl, because they’re used to too many guys trying to hide their emotions and this will be a welcome relief. In the same way,
