Keeping a relationship is not easy and being in a relationship can be
confusing sometimes. There are times that you feel that you are the
luckiest guy having a smooth relationship with your girlfriend and the
next, you are arguing over the smallest things. Then the next thing you
know, she decided to end the relationship and you are caught unprepared
and didn’t see it coming. What happened? What changed? If you’ve been
dumped, nursing a broken heart and not willing to accept that you and
your girlfriend are already over but your girlfriend didn’t want to try
anymore, this article can be very helpful to change your situation.
Women can be the most confusing creature on earth, saying one thing
and meaning another. It can be really difficult to understand them
sometimes but here’s a few tips to understand what is truly on their
minds… pay attention to details! Pay attention to their body language,
the way they say things instead of “what” they say. It will give you
more clues what really is on their minds and it can help you become more
receptive to their needs.
If you’ve been trying so hard to get her attention and win her back
by constantly calling and texting her and trying to explain your side,
it might not work. Why? Because it is something that she already
expected that you will do. She might even ignore you more and if you
will continue acting like a desperate man. Women want to be surprised
and challenged so do something out of the ordinary. Cut any means of
communication and stop contacting her for a while. This can tickle her
curiosity why you seem so cool about the break up and she will start to
think more about you. Wait for a while then resurface with a surprise.
Send her flowers with a romantic note or a romantic gift. Nothing grand
but sweet enough to make her heart flatter.
If you’re past that point of wooing her back with romance, it’s a
sign that your contact is happening too soon. Give her more time and
space to cool down and find her head in this whole mess. This includes
you also. Don’t worry about her moving on to another guy, she isn’t
going to erupt with someone in a few months, just relax and be patient.
Understand why she left in the first place if you’re still unclear.
Sometimes you won’t be able to get a clear cut answer no matter what you
do, in that case, you need to remember back to why she was attracted to
you in the first place. Was it your sense of humour? Your uniqueness?
Your charm? Whatever it is, you need to bring them out again but not in a
way that might make her suspicious.
Ask to meet for a casual coffee or outing and remember to keep the
date casual and laid-back. If she is apprehensive about meeting you, the
more you need to assure her that you don’t have ulterior motives to see
her.
Slowly gaining trust is important and takes time, but it’s what works if you want your girl to change her mind.
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